Over the years, she has taken total control in the bedroom—we only have sex when she is in the mood, when she brings it up and in the manner she wants—I have no say. She also took control over all our finances and I transferred all assets to her name only to make her feel extra secure that Id never leave her for any reason. She caged my cock around 3 years ago—first with a CB and then when my hardon broke the plastic seam, we switched to a Jailbird which keeps me very small and snug. When her pussy gets too sensitive from orgasms, she turns onto her tummy and I worship her perfect ass until she decides to go to sleep.
Well, it entirely depends on how the act is carried out and who it's carried out on. However, it is possible for some acts of degradation to ALSO humiliate. Either by better behavior or a fun time, participants should be aiming for a positive outcome. It should never damage a sub's headspace , make them feel unsafe, or trigger them to past traumas.